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Tenth High School Reunion – Lauren Gibilisco

It’s been 10 years since I graduated from High School. We had our 10th year reunion this last weekend. I had to find someone who could help lead me around. I love my mom but going to a reunion with your mom is just not cool, so I asked my friend Meredith to take me.

The first festivity was a float in a parade. The class reunions are always during our town’s celebration weekend. As much as I wanted to sit on the float with my classmates, I knew it would be impossible. The weather was 85 degrees which is way too hot for me to be outside long and then there was the problem of needing a restroom. We had to line up on our float an hour before the parade and then the parade was an hour long. I can’t go that long without needing the restroom. It really disappointed me but I’ve learned there are things I just can’t partake in.

The next festivity was out at a cabin.   I talked with my mom and decided it would just be too hard for me to walk across an uneven surface, be outside in the heat, and again needing the restroom. So we decided to just skip that also. Then my friend Meredith said she was only going to stay out there for an hour and would help guide me around. I was very excited about that. I really did want to go but didn’t want to be a burden to anyone. But Meredith insisted that I wouldn’t be a burden and she would be glad to take me there. I was really happy I went. I got to see a lot of my classmates. Well I couldn’t SEE them but I was able to talk with them and say hello. Meredith took me around and let me know who was there so I could say hello to everyone.

Then that evening there was a dinner banquet. Meredith again took me there and helped me to the table. Unfortunately not many of my classmates came. So I was really glad I was able to go to the cabin because I saw many more classmates then I would have been able to see at the banquet.

After the banquet everyone was heading to the bar to celebrate. There was a live band playing and it was less than ½ block to my house. Unfortunately by this time I was getting very tired. That darn fatigue was getting in the way of my continuing the celebration. I told everyone that I would be the designated driver to drive them home but no one took me up on that one. I wonder why? But overall it was a great experience and I’m glad I went and I’m glad that my friend Meredith took the time to help me enjoy the celebration. I am very grateful to her.

Image of Lauren Gibilisco's class reunion.

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What It’s Been Like – Living With Wolfram Syndrome

Hello, Hola, Tung, Ciao, Bon Jour!

Photo of Lauren Gibilisco, Wolfram syndrome patient

In honor of the upcoming St. Patrick’s Day holiday. This was me from last year.

Recently I was contacted by someone who works with me. Her nephew’s girlfriend needed to write about someone with a disability. Of course she thought of me. Who better to pick from then someone with more than one disability?

I received a phone call from her and she introduced herself and told me what she needed for the report. I told her I had Wolfram syndrome. Her first questions were at what age I was diagnosed which I said was 12 when I was finally diagnosed with Wolfram syndrome but had diabetes mellitus at age 2, hearing loss age 5, vision loss and diabetes insipidus age 11.

She wanted to know if I had been treated differently by anyone because of my disease. I told her yes. In High School the teachers were great and made accommodations that I needed. I only had a few friends in high school. A lot of kids thought I was faking. They were nice to me but only a few went out of their way to help me. No one offered me rides home and to go shopping or to go to school activities. I was home alone a lot. You see my disabilities weren’t VISIBLE. They didn’t know how much was wrong with me because all the problems were inside of me. If I had lost a leg then people can see and will help you. They didn’t know all my problems with choking, ataxia, heat intolerance, seizures, fatigue, bladder issues, hearing loss, vision loss, etc. All of these problems at that time were invisible. Then in college I didn’t start using my cane until my last year. It wasn’t that I couldn’t see some but had become adept at counting doors, counting steps and feeling my way around. My Human Service Director thought I was even faking because I could do things so easily. I was able to have my text books downloaded and had computer software then read me the words. In spite of my disabilities I was able to have been ranked 8th in my high school and was a member of Phi Theta Kappa in college.

I told her about the lack of research when I was first diagnosed and now how much research is being done in St. Louis with Dr. Fumi and his team. When I was diagnosed there was very little written about Wolfram syndrome. My mom spent hours on the computer researching it and was able with another Wolfram parent to start the very first web page with a support group. It was how we were able to meet more people. I also told her that now I have several friends from all over the world. They are in England, Spain, Switzerland and Italy, Canada, Australia and of course the US. What is great is that I can actually see them and talk with them through Skype. It is fun talking to them although their accents sometimes make it difficult to hear. I also told her about the Snow Foundation and my blogs on their website so she could read them and get a better feel of who I am.

I told her of my desire to be a cop but I didn’t think they would give me a car or gun since I am blind. When I was younger I had different dreams for myself but sometimes you have to change your dreams to fit life.

She asked me how I am doing now in my life. I said “As far as I see”, I am doing well. Haha.

Goodbye, Adios, Tung, Ciao, Au Revoir

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Lauren to the Rescue

images-1I have been feeling pretty well. But the last few weeks my toes have hurt on one foot. I think it is from overdoing it on the exercise. I exercise whenever I’m bored so I exercise a lot. My mom told me to take it easy on the exercise until my foot stopped hurting. So now I have been a little more bored, if that is possible, because I’m not exercising as much. Oh well, that just means I get to talk more which drives my mom nuts. Ha-ha.

A couple of weeks ago we got a lot of snow here although not as much as the Boston area. We got 18 inches of snow with winds blowing 40 miles an hour and wind chills 20 below zero. That morning my dad was putting the snow blower into the back of the truck to take to the store and he slipped on ice and broke his arm. He just had surgery on Friday. They couldn’t do it any sooner because of the swelling. He broke his right arm so he can’t do much. I feel very bad for him and keep praying that it will heal soon.

I’ve had to help my dad button his shirt, put on his socks, open the pop up and open up containers with his pills in them. The only thing he is able to do with his arm is to write if possible. Other than that he cannot use it at all. It was a very bad break and they had to order a special plate and screws to fix it up. So the doctors were very clear to him that he could do NOTHING with it.

So thanks to him I’ve got a new job to do. I don’t mind it at all. It gives me something to do. It also gives me someone else to talk to. I feel very useful and I haven’t felt like this in a long time. I like feeling this way. It makes me feel good to help someone else.

There is one more thing my dad needs help doing, and that’s driving. Now I tell everyone that I am his new driver. Ha-ha. (Not too bad for someone living with wolfram syndrome.)

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The challenge of the simple things – Lauren Gibilisco

Wolfram syndrome patient Lauren GibiliscoSometimes it’s doing the simple things in life that someone with Wolfram syndrome has trouble doing.

One morning last week my mom was going to work and she was going to drop me off at work. We were heading out the door when she remembered she didn’t put back on her wedding rings. She went into the office where she took them off last night. Well, they weren’t there. She then went into the kitchen to see if she had taken them off there. They weren’t there. Now she was starting to get frantic. She checked in the living room, the bathroom and the bedroom. They were not to be found. All this time I hear her rushing back and forth. So what could I do? Absolutely nothing. If I tried to help her look I would probably knock something off a counter and it would break and I would just cause her more problems. I felt so bad that I couldn’t help her. So I sat there and did the only thing that I could do. I started praying. I prayed to St. Anthony who is the patron saint of lost things. I asked for his help in helping my mom find her rings. She kept saying I know I took them off in the office. She sat in the office chair just feeling devastated. She looked around closely to everything in the room and finally said “I know where they are.” She then picked up a bottle of jewelry cleaner. Last night she put them in the solution to clean the rings. My mom was so happy now. I just whispered my thanks to St. Anthony.

I get really bored at home. My mom told me my sister was going out of town for several days and we get to keep Emmy, her dog. We were going to pick her up on Friday. That week I worked on Wednesday and Thursday. I was so excited to get her. Riding home my mom asked me if I wanted to hold her. I really wanted to but I was just so tired I had to sleep on the ride home. Then when we got home that night and I was still so tired that I had to go to bed right after supper. I still had Saturday and Sunday to enjoy her. Unfortunately they were no better. I was still tired and although I played with her some I couldn’t really enjoy her because of my fatigue. But there was one thing I could do that really helped out. Emmy is a very good dog and obeys commands except for when you say “come.” She thinks it’s a game and goes running around. Both my mom and dad have so much trouble catching her to put her in the kennel. I wish I could see what they look like but I can imagine from hearing them running around so out of breath. She will never let them catch her. So my mom yelled at me to sit down and call for Emmy. So I sat down and said “Emmy come here.” Emmy walked over to me and sat in my lap and I was able to pick her up so we could get her in the kennel. Emmy has always been that way for me. It’s like she knows I can’t see her so she makes it easy for me to get her. They always say dogs can sense things. So sometimes I guess it’s a blessing to be blind.

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A day in the life – Lauren Gibilisco

Wolfram syndrome patient Lauren GibiliscoThrough the holidays at work there were Christmas trees up in several of the rooms. When I was passing through one room, I saw a tall shadow and I said hello but no one said anything. So I took my cane and poked at it and realized it was not a person but a tree. How embarrassing!

I told you in my last blog that I was going to ramp up my exercising to lose those holiday pounds. Recently, I was watching TV and there was a commercial about losing weight fast. So of course, it caught my attention. Who wouldn’t want a quick way to lose weight? I listened to it hoping they were going to talk about some new exercise to do, but it was for a “drink product.” As I was listening to it, I realized I was eating a bowl of ice cream. Was this a sign that I was not supposed to eat it? Nope, it tasted too good so I ate it anyway. But afterwards I did a lot of exercising so I wouldn’t feel so guilty.

I have mentioned that living with Wolfram syndrome, I have a lot of trouble with heat intolerance. For the last month we have had temperatures in the low teens with wind chills below zero. I love this time of year. I can just open the upstairs outside door and do my exercises with the cold air keeping me from getting so hot. My family doesn’t appreciate it though. But this week the temperature got up to 50 degrees. I asked my parents if they would turn on the air conditioner. Good thing I couldn’t see the dirty look they gave me. Haha.

I thought I would model one of my new shirts for you all to see. Have a great week everyone.

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Merry Christmas Everyone! – Lauren Gibilisco

Photo of Lauren Gibilsco at ChristmasI dressed up in a Santa hat and wore a bell when I went to work. The bell jingling as I walked down the hall warned my fellow employees that I was coming. My bosses liked this because then they knew where to find me.

But this gave me an idea. I was going to have to be home by myself with my sisters dog Emmy for a few hours. I worried that I wouldn’t be able to know where she was. She is very nosy and likes to get into everything. She even unwrapped some of my sisters presents at home. We of course needed to get Emmy some toys for her first Christmas. While we were looking around I came up with the idea to get bells to put on Emmy so I would know where she was. My mom found a Santa collar with 3 bells on it that we could put on her. This worked great as I was able to hear where she was. Sometimes you have to be creative and come up with solutions to problems.

I had a very nice Christmas. On Christmas Eve it was just our family and that was nice because it was quiet so we could talk and hear each other. We opened our presents that night. I received 8 new tops, some for dress and some for casual. My mom and sister picked them out. It is the only way I can stay current with fashion. I rely on them to tell me if is really looks good on me or not. They did get me two long sleeve shirts but the material was very light and thin so even with my heat intolerance I shouldn’t have problems wearing them.

The next day on Christmas we went to Church and then up to Omaha to see my mom’s side of the family. My mom had to take me up to the table and tell me what desserts there were for me to try. She has to tell me because I can’t smell them and barely taste them. My tests from St. Louis reported I have no sense of smell anymore. Since it is Christmas time I am going to indulge myself with a few sweets. In order to do this I will need to ramp up my exercise routine and work off those extra sugars and calories. I am not familiar with my aunt’s house. I went to use the restroom and thought I was walking straight but instead ran into the door. Luckily I didn’t hit the door too hard. The only sad part of the party was that my grandparents were not able to come. They were both very sick from Influenza and they couldn’t come and we couldn’t visit them. But I was able to talk with them on the phone.

Of course I was keeping the true meaning of Christmas in my heart.

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We all have so much to be thankful for – Lauren Gibilisco

Wolfram syndrome patient, Lauren GibiliscoAs I mentioned previously, I had a test done for my oxygen levels over night. I am happy to say they are normal.

I was dreading the thought of having to use a cpap during the night. I did do as the doctor instructed and started taking Vitamin B. Although I still do sleep a lot at night, I am only taking one nap a day instead of 3. That is a big improvement and I think it means I am also sleeping better at night.

When I first went to go to the hospital to get the oxygen machine, the nurse was showing me how it worked. It didn’t take long and I told her I had a rare disease, Wolfram syndrome, that only one person in 500,000 develop. Then she said enthusiastically “oh, can I shake your hand? I have never met a rare person.” I told her she would probably never meet another one like me in which my mother replied “thank God.”

I had a wonderful Thanksgiving Day. Most of my family was able to come down to our house. It’s hard to get everyone together. My cousin had just returned from his second tour of Afghanistan. We all were very thankful to have him with us.

It was hard to hear though. Too many people in one room. Too much noise for someone with hearing aids. I really couldn’t hear the conversations so I just sat there just enjoying their presence. I also had real trouble tasting what I was eating. Sometimes I really did not know what I was chewing. I can’t see it and have trouble tasting it or smelling it so I rely on my memory of what that food tasted like. That is one thing I really missed. Getting up in the morning on Thanksgiving Day and smelling the turkey.

But as I said, the most important thing was being very thankful and having most of my family with me that day. My grandparents are getting old so I treasure every minute with him. I really enjoyed spending time with my cousins and aunts and of course, with my family. My sister brought along her puppy Emmy and I was very thankful for that. I really, really enjoy playing with her.

I hope you all had a very nice Thanksgiving. We all have so much to be thankful for.

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Adventures in blindness – Lauren Gibilisco

Photo of Lauren GibiliscoI’ve had a few incidences lately due to not being able to see.

The first one was when we went to Olive Garden to eat. When they took us to the table my mom told me it was a booth so I needed to scoot down. So I kept scooting expecting to run into a wall but instead I almost sat right on this ladies lap that was beside me. My mom forgot to tell me it was an open booth so there people on both sides of us. Of course once again I was embarrassed and promptly told the lady that I was very, very sorry. I told her I was blind and she said that’s ok, she was fine.

If I haven’t told you, I shred paper for our local telecommunication center. Who better to do it than someone who can’t see what’s on the confidential papers. So one day I went to get someone’s shredding and I couldn’t find it. Usually they put it in front of me. But this girl didn’t get up to put it in front of me and proceeded to tell me that it was over there. I turned a few times and she kept saying over there, over there until I found it. Once I got it I turned to her and said, “Were you pointing your finger?”  She said “yes, it’s just habit.” Then they all started laughing because she knew that I couldn’t see. It just a habit to point to people when they are looking for something forgetting a blind person can’t see them pointing.

I was always colorblind but now I can’t even see colors. It is pretty much just light and dark but mostly dark. I have trouble knowing if a light in the house is on or off during the day because of the sunlight coming through.  My mom and I went shopping and she ran into some really cute clothes that she thought my sister would like. She turned to me and said “isn’t this cute?” Of course she knew what she said but then she said sadly that I really wish you could see. It’s just like a right of passage that a mother and daughter could go shopping together and have a fun time looking at clothes.  It doesn’t bother me much but it really bothers my mom.

My mom works hard during the week. On the weekends she tries to get some projects done. A couple of weekends ago she needed to paint the garage door. Of course it was a very hot day. Temps were in the high 90’s. I really wanted to help my mom out. I like being able to do things for my mom. So I asked her if I could help. She struggled to find the right words to say to me. She said “I really wish you could but for one it’s too hot for you to be outside and that she really was worried I would get more paint on the driveway than on the door.” Lol. She was probably right. So I went back into the house feeling like a prisoner in my own home.

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Long Time No See

I had a great week. I just returned from the Wolfram Clinic in St. Louis. This is my 5th year going to the clinic. I am going to tell you the difficulties I had of hearing and seeing.

Photo of Dr. Urano and Lauren Gibilisco

Dr. Urano and me at my 5th Wolfram Clinic.

The first night we had orientation. We were to go to different stations to sign papers and collect supplies. I sat at Dr. Urano’s table and chatted for a while. After we left I said to my mom “does he have an accent and where is he from? “My mom told me he was Japanese. This is the 5th year of seeing him and I never knew he was Japanese. We had a good laugh over that.  It is very difficult to have someone come up to you that you can’t see and can hardly hear. As we went from table to table I greeted the doctors with “long time no see.” I wanted to see how many of them would catch it.

In my appointment with the audiologist I had to listen for beeps, repeat words and sentences. My first sentence was “the cat is sitting on the bed.” I repeated “the cat is shitting on the bed.” I asked her if that sentence was what she said. She could hardly answer me because she was laughing so hard. She said I gave her the laugh for the day.

One day we took the trolley to go explore Forest Park. It was very difficult getting up into the trolley. There were two steep steps I had to go up and making sure I didn’t fall off the curb. I made it onto the trolley and had to get to my seat. Again I had to step up to get there. I grabbed for the seat in front of me but instead I grabbed the hair of the lady in front of me. I was mortified and apologized to the lady and my mom did also. She said “she was fine.” We all had a good laugh over that.

I realized how the information that the doctors get from us will one day lead to a cure. Dr. Urano is creating new eye cells right now that may greatly help or reverse eyesight. The clinics are great.  It is so nice seeing all the people there each year. We feel like a family. But all the testing and blood samples may one day help stop or cure Wolfram Syndrome. I for one am so happy to be a part of this and to be a part of the cure. What better way to help others out.

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Family Vacation Fun

I had a wonderful week spending time with my family at Sherman Reservoir in Nebraska.

Gibilisco Girls

The Gibilisco Girls

We were able to take our first family vacation in 13 years. With my parents store they were not able to get away together and then my sister was in college.  Since my parents sold their store we are now able to spend quality time with each other.

My sister drove home with her puppy to spend the week with us.  I had a lot of fun playing with her dog while she was here.  We rented a cabin at the lake so we could go fishing.  When we arrived at the marina we forgot that we girls did not have fishing licenses.  It was no problem for my mom and sister to show their driving license to get it.  When it came to me the person at the desk said “where is your license.”  I told her “I’m blind I don’t have a license.” She laughed and said she was sorry but I have to have one to let you fish.

Out on the boat it was fun feeling the waves.  You don’t need a license to drive the boat, so I was able to drive the boat since I had a wide open space with nothing to hit.  The only problem I had was I was starting to get hot so my dad dropped me and my mom off at the cabin and they went out fishing again.

We girls took a day to go shopping.  My sister wanted some new furniture. They were looking for rugs and told me to keep an eye out for one. “Haha, very funny” I said. It had been a busy week so I was getting tired.  My fatigue factor kicked in and they had to set me down in a chair because I was so exhausted.

I loved spending time with my family.  It was fun and everyone had a good time. They only problem I had was I hated how my disease had to be factored in to our experiences.  My family is very understanding of it and it did not stop us from having fun. It is great having a close and wonderful family.

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